Depending on the amount of history between you and the other person that you are talking with choosing the right question or comment can mean the difference from achieving approval, making new friends or getting a date.
The best questions to ask usually leave the possibility of fun or intelligent answer that will make the other person that you are talking with feel good about themself.
Fun Questions to Ask
Here are some examples that you may find useful whenever you are in a tight situation socially.
Knowing what to talk about upfront can mean the difference between having a fun conversation or sitting alone in awkward silence.
What’s your favorite vacation spot
This question is good because it is connected with good and feelings of relaxation and having fun.
Talking about travel and vacations is always a good topic for conversation.
Would you rather be invisible or travel trough time
This question leaves the possibility for naughty and fun answers, you can also ask
What would you do if you can go invisible when you want
Where would you go if you can travel through time
These two questions are favorites among the scholarly or geeky type of people.
Who was your favorite teacher
Who was your least favorite teacher
Gossiping can be fun, especially while remembering events from the past that are too old to have any other emotional significance other than to be used in fun conversation.
Besides who knows, you may learn that you went to the same school or had the same type of teachers.
Connected to these questions you can also ask
What was your favorite class and why
On the other hand, if you feel more confident you can ask
What kind of animal would you like to be, in your next life (incarnation)
or even more fun
What kind of bug would you like to be born into
This question leaves you with the chance to make fun of the person that you talk with, and sometimes this can generate attraction.
Just remember not to overdo it, you like to increase your friend’s confidence and self-image not to destroy it if the person you talk with feels uneasy may stop talking to you, keep that in mind.
Have you ever wanted to be in reality show
In what reality show or movie would you most likely joined if you had the chance
This question can also be used as a filter to find out something more about the person that you are talking with right now, is he/she geeky stay at home type or more outgoing type of person.
If you are god, what type of god would you be
This one is a little provocative but it leaves the possibility of having fun with your conversation partner.
What’s the grossest thing you’ve ever eaten
This question leaves the possibility of making fun of your conversation partner, just remember to share so that it doesn’t become just an ego trip for you.
For the conversation to be fun for both sides, everyone must be on the same level so just don’t try to dominate your partner by accident.
What’s the best birthday celebration that you’ve had
This question is a little sneaky because it leaves you with new knowledge about your conversation partner that you can use in the future to build a better relationship (can be used both with building romantic or friendly relationships).
What is the best cartoon you’ve ever seen
Everyone was happier as a kid than as an adult.
Taking your conversation partner back to the childhood period can relax them into sharing more with you.
What is the grossest thing that you have ever smelled
This question leaves space for weirdly fun conversation to evolve, just remember to also share any experience with smelling weird stuff that you may have.
What is your dream job
This question leaves space for analyzing if your conversation partner is lazy or would rather spend most of his time working.
Would you rather live in a house, apartment or a cabin out in the wilderness
This question can be used as a screening to find how adventurous is your conversation partner
Need More Questions?
here’s a list of Fun Questions to Ask a Guy